10 Things to Do After a Loved One Passes Away

Jamie Holton • July 2, 2025

10 Things to Do After a Loved One Passes Away

Losing a loved one is never easy. In the midst of grief, the responsibilities that follow can feel overwhelming. At Cone Funeral Home and Crematory, we want you to know that you are not alone. This guide outlines ten important steps to take when a death occurs, helping you navigate the next chapter with clarity and support.


1. Notify Close Family and Friends

Begin by reaching out to immediate family and close friends. These first phone calls are never easy, but having the support of others during this time is crucial.


2. Contact a Funeral Home

Call a trusted funeral home, like Cone Funeral Home, to report the death and begin making arrangements. We will help guide you through the entire process, from transporting your loved one to planning the service.


3. Locate Important Documents

Find the will, power of attorney, advance directives, and insurance policies. These documents will inform decisions regarding the estate and funeral planning.


4. Arrange for the Care of Dependents and Pets

If your loved one was responsible for children, elderly family members, or pets, ensure they are cared for immediately by trusted individuals.


5. Secure the Residence

Make sure your loved one’s home is locked, mail is collected, and valuables are safeguarded. This can prevent potential issues during the transitional period.


6. Begin Funeral or Cremation Arrangements

With the help of your funeral director, decide on burial or cremation, and begin planning a service that reflects your loved one’s life and wishes. Pre-arranged plans, if in place, will guide these decisions.


7. Notify Employers, Banks, and Insurance Providers

Begin informing the necessary parties: your loved one’s employer, financial institutions, life insurance companies, and any government benefit programs (such as Social Security).


8. Write the Obituary and Plan the Service Details

Work with your funeral home to compose an obituary, choose a date and location for the service, and coordinate any clergy or speakers who will participate.


9. Obtain Death Certificates

You will need multiple certified copies of the death certificate to handle financial, legal, and governmental matters. Cone Funeral Home and Crematory can assist in obtaining these for you.


10. Seek Grief Support

Grief can be isolating. Consider joining a grief support group, talking to a counselor, or using resources available through Cone Funeral Home and Crematory. Healing takes time, and support can make all the difference.


At Cone Funeral Home and Crematory, we’re more than just a funeral service provider — we’re a compassionate partner during your time of need. If you or someone you know is facing the loss of a loved one, please know that we are here 24/7 to offer guidance, comfort, and care.


Cone Funeral Home and Crematory

Proudly serving Bowling Green and the surrounding communities with dignity and respect.

1510 Campbell Lane

Bowling Green, KY 42104

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